Room To Grow

I’m not disillusioned expecting everything to be perfect.  I am so aware of human frailty in myself and others.  My expectation is realistic.  I’m committed to the work of us.  Dedicated to the time it will take to secure the life, relationship we so desire.  It’s important to me that we walk in agreement, that we both benefit mutually.  I give you the promise of win/win collaboration in growth opportunities.  I promise to always consult God, and live life dependent on Him.  I expect you to do the same.  Everything else we share is ours to give and enjoy freely, because we want to; not because we feel we have to.  No bondage or ball in chain thinking, just happy surrender and commitment to love shared and expressed; nothing given, performed begrudgingly out of mere duty.

What a concept of marriage and oneness.  What lessons we will learn and teach by example.  God’s granting, giving us the opportunity to walk it out right, may our effort always be present and may we never fall to old patterns of destructive behaviors practiced in the past.  I promise to tell you exactly what’s on my mind in a non-accusing manner, to be vulnerable with my feelings and give you a chance to come through, instead of making it happen for myself.  I promise to handle you right see you as a part of our team, not as my enemy.  I won’t pull away or isolate the true me from your viewing. You will have full access to both the public and private me.  When I’m weak, afraid, or needing something I’ll tell you and won’t expect you to know or figure it out.  I’ll let you know and continuously remind you of your importance, worth, the position you hold within my heart, my life.   I’ll seize the opportunity to serve you, bless you, give you the respect and honor you are due.  You’re my first priority, ministry, who I’m called to.  God placed this love, attraction in my heart.  I’m blessed and highly favored to carry and birth our purposes spirit then physical.  God gave me to you to help meet.  Love of my life, preferred one in everything we go through there’s always room to grow.

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