In His Likeness w/ AntTBri

My mind can imagine many things my heart has never experienced in the area of mature love

It’s funny how you have no point of reference yet you still long for something more in the reserves of who you are

Youthful love produces so many emotions; but provides no elasticity for growth it doesn’t ask the right questions

Think, re-evaluate, access your needs once again

It would be unfair to impose the same criteria, expectations on parties involved

Previous questions asked are out dated,

Needs change, wants evolve; communication is the key of transition

The question then becomes can you grow with me?  Remain committed to the concept of love we stand upon?

Are you TRUE to the standard of holiness, the vows of covenant when your flesh wants the forbidden?

In choosing to love what safeguards do you maintain? Let’s discuss options held in reserve?

Expectations of perfection, all inclusive, fulfill all my needs traps? The stuff not humanly possible, or realistic

How can you expect what you yourself are unable to give?

Comprised within all of us is the capacity to be the best and worst at any given thing/time; have you given that any thought?

Why focus on the things of us/the length of time both are continuously evolving/changing?

Wouldn’t energy be better served getting to know the core of who we are?

After the dust settles, on the other side of trial/struggle/process

is the some one you fell in love with; still promising forever?

Can you handle the weight of all that encompasses me?  The public and private person others don’t get to see?

Can I be transparent, vulnerable, and open with what I feel and think?

Can I accept and love myself through the eyes of God?  Do you see yourself as a gift, unique, wonderful, and beautifully made?  Is this what makes it possible to love another from the very same view?  Are you pursuing the purpose of God for your life?  Is HE the source of your life?  When you pray does he speak specifically to you? How do you determine the validity of what you hear?  Do you submit all feelings, emotions, thoughts to the complete finished work of Christ being manifest in your Life?

Is the Word of God the final authority in what you say and do?  No really, not your confession but opposite of what you do?  And if by chance you fail with the best of intentions do you admit your wrong and move on?  How do you handle pride?  What’s your response when it’s hurt? Who holds the responsibility for your happiness/fulfillment? Is your response God granting, God willing your times in his hands?

What/where do you give from?  Is it limited to pockets, mouth service, and other peoples’ eyes?  Or does it begin in the heart and evolve into the others?  Are you willing to share and continue to work at life together?

These are some of the questions that need to be answered before a mature woman considers becoming a wife.